It’s not you, it’s me.
Dearest Joan,
Writing to you in my head is a common occurrence. I think it helps process my thoughts and figure out what the fuck is going on.
Guess who is no longer going to therapy! Yep. I am healed. ahahaha. Well no and I am not sure if healed would ever be the right word – more like just more sorted with my thoughts and strategies. Anyway, it wasn’t me it was them. Such a classic line for a break up. I got this shitty text to say:
Well, as it turns out I have been working on trying to be a bit more forthright rather than dance around and try to please everyone. I let them know how I felt. I have decided to not go back there and use their services. Pressing pause on it all, I believe, is temporary. The next time I will be a little more aggressive in what I am looking for. It actually feels good as I had been thinking a week earlier that there are language barriers getting in the way, so getting everything I wanted out of it, wasn’t quite happening. I am going to be honest with my feelings and if it all gets too much, too often then reach out again. It really wasn’t me. hahah
The rehearsal of this letter had me talking about something else, but for the life of me I cannot remember it – Maybe just thinking it had me let go of it. Such a refreshing feeling really.
One thing that has had my mind ticking is another friend of mine. Her sadness and rightly so. She lost a loved one. I say I can’t imagine the sadness but I was wrecked when my neighbour died – never mind a family member. Anyway, I am asking for some prayers Joan. Not for her family member but for her. I don’t even really know if she believes in God and I don’t give a shit really. A little irreverent there. I am not sure what she needs but maybe, more than anything, just to be carried for a little while. She would never ask for this – quite a stubborn, strong and proud woman. But I do think she needs to be carried for a while – a bit like that footsteps in the sand thing. Don’t worry, she will be able to carry herself…eventually…but for now she needs to piggy backed for a while. Ask for that. She needs some light. Ask for that too. God and I chat too. I would really appreciate some extra prayers for her Joan.
Well on another note – my kids are shitting me. Every mum loves to hear as the put dinner on the table – yuk, I don’t like that. Sorry kid but a diet of fried meat and spud isn’t a diet. No deal. Turd.
There are more bits and pieces floating in mind but I think I can leave them alone for a bit.
Joan, I have always admired the courage you have to take on a new adventure. Keep leaping!
Love Eve
P.S. To my other friend reading, we will carry you till you are ready. I love you too.